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Friday, September 17, 2010

Our Old Folks Needs Tender Loving Care

When we were raised by our parents, love, care, support & protection was what we got from them. The knowledge that we’ve learned from our old folks is the same “genetic skill” that we use in facing the challenges of life. However, after years of growing up under the care of our loving parents, we are now ready to go on our own. We may be thankful to our parents, but later we decide to vacate and leave our parents on their own. Or worse senile they become, we put them into exile, in nursing homes or in the home for the aged.

By leaving our old folks, our conscience do not bothers us because we are busy in keeping abreast in everything we do as independent “future seekers.” In the process the tie that binds is slowly loosening up because we have no family to share with, no parents to care about.

This scenario or facts of life is traditionally the case in the industrialized countries. Senior citizens are being put into nursing homes. The concern of caring for the old folks usually passed onto the hard working caregivers or senior carers for them to give TLC instead. But other old folks don’t get help from the said institutions because they live alone in their country homes, tenements, apartments or flats as the Brits called and sometimes poor senior citizens live by the streets because the worst of times had caught with them & deprived to live in a place called “home.”

Although, the latter is not a familiar face in rich countries, the opposite is what can be seen in third world countries. Homeless senior citizens crowd the dirty and dangerous street environment compounded by the lack of facilities and support from the family, religious, government and the private sectors. Perhaps the absence of these things has contributed to the sad and distressful plight of old folks longing for TLC from their family.

Thus, for me, the love and care that I received from my parents is irreplaceable. Giving them TLC or tender loving care is an honest responsibility that we should share with our old folks till their last hurrah on earth. How about you, do you give back the love and care that your parents have shared with you? Just asking…it’s not too late for you to reciprocate the support, protection, love and care that you received from your old folks.

Thursday, July 29, 2010

WHY LIVING IN AN ORDINARY HOUSE IS HAPPIER THAN THE ONE WITH PALATIAL SPACES

I surmised not everyone will agree that living in an ordinary and simple house is happier than the one with palatial spaces. I admit that this discourse sounds not right to some but before you dig on me and thrown into the world of make - believe or exiled in Pinocchio’s Wonder Land, let me explain first the reasons why I came-up with this conclusion.

Peace of mind
A family or individuals living in an ordinary and simple house have peace of mind than that of persons living in the luxury of a big house or mansion. Simple reason shows that an ordinary and simple house does not attract attention from the prying eyes of burglars, robbers and other uninvited guests who loves to break-in. In a humble living one wouldn’t need to worry about security and tranquility, thus peace of mind transpires.
On the other hand, living in such a huge house or mansion is stressful because one would need to be extra careful by putting high tech security measures to prevent intruders or gun toting men-in-mask from breaking-in. The elaborate, elegant and luxurious design of a huge house or mansion is a magnet for criminals.

Aura, Paranormal Force and Eerie Part and Happy Family
In an ordinary and simple house and considered small in standard, the aura or paranormal force jibes with the structure of the house. Occupants usually feel the ease of belongingness, happiness and abundance of life and spirit. The normal space or area of the house makes the aura more pleasant to the occupants and to visitors alike. And because the house is adequately built and has just enough elbow-room for occupants to move around, it creates no anxiety nor discontent but rather fulfillment of a happy family.
The exact opposite can be described on big houses or mansions because normally its structural design is more on wide spaces, putting more emphasis on large distances from one side to another, from one corner to another, from one floor to another and from one room to another.
Ultimately, the palatial spaces or areas make it more eerie, haunted and strangely terrifying in appearance. Typically, ghosts or wandering spirits inhabit unoccupied and dark parts of the house. The house is like void space, no happiness to speak of. It’s empty.
Here, the occupants usually are busy with their personal lives. They seldom make use of their bonding time or family time. Often, boredom and loneliness strikes them hard confounded by the negative effect of aura or paranormal force created by the palatial spaces. The effect is worse. Family members succumb to drug use or overdose and eventually death by suicide or murder.

Monday, June 7, 2010

HOW TO FIGHT PORN ON THE NET

Well this may sound way-off-line for porn-viewer netizens but to those who are family oriented, morally upright and decently motivated individuals, fighting porn is just a matter of selfless interest to protect their family especially children from sexual perverts encroaching into their lives. Fighting porn is not easy, it takes one to be serious because it operates the net 24/7. So, before it's too late take action to stamp-out the menace. A good website will explain to you on how to fight porn.Please follow this link.
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